How to bring the child to a person independent and self-motivated and simply fill their individuality? One of the children is an ongoing task and quite difficult. Old with two children, 4 and 6 years and a 10 year old daughter, I periodically check for information on this topic.
All parents and teachers know that it's much better to teach the child by example. And above all, for example, must show the child's parents. And it is not only the way we treat one anotherother than spouses, but also how they treat and talk about other people outside the family. This means that when the father tells his son: "Wash your hands before eating", and to return home from the office, do not wash their hands, the child will always have a subconscious desire to copy his father in all, despite all appeals. Here you see a conflict in education - the discrepancy between what is asked of the child and what he observed around him. And this discrepancy will give an impulse,Misunderstandings and resistance in the future.
Of course, every family has their own ideas and methods of education of their children. But it is also interesting to learn, there is, what educational practices. Not far away, I found ten tips for raising children of character and I want to share with you. The tips are very interesting and easy, but we always forget them in our daily lives. I recommend you pay attention to a brief summary.
Do not wait, check that your child isThem. Or whatever you want. Education should help the child to be themselves. Do not treat your child's problems with contempt, seems assured, at his age that his life is not easier than yours. And sometimes it seems even more difficult. Because the child is not used, as you get to do. Do not treat the child with shame and dishonor. Do not ask the child to a fee for everything you do for him: She gave his life how can I thank you? Later will give life to another:this is an irreversible act of gratitude. Do not work on the bad-tempered child. Remember: you sow, you reap. Do not torture yourself if you do not do something for your child, but you should torment if you do something and do it out of laziness, stirring life, etc. Remember, not enough has been done for the child if it has not done everything possible. And 'the great law of education! Love your child, no matter what: no-talent can be unluckystationary. When communicating with your child, enjoy the time they spend together, because it is a holiday that will not last long. Loving someone else's child. Treat it as a child. You should carefully review the rules. Principles of discipline should be clear and firm but not hard.
In summary, I would say that not only bring our children, but also lead us immediately. If you want your child better, you should know better. And 'the fundamentalPostulated the formation!
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